People-Oriented Christianity

As a type-A personality with a slight case of OCD, my need for organization and to-do lists sometimes hinders my spiritual walk. Thus, when God called me to step out of my comfort zone and travel to a foreign country for an internship, I experienced a lot of stretching. Through living in a people-oriented culture, God opened my eyes to how callous I had become.

American culture is pretty cold. We like our personal space, and we don’t want other people sucking valuable time slots from our already busy schedule. We smile and nod and say, “Oh yes, we’ll have to get together sometime,” but we don’t prioritize relationships enough to follow through. Time is money, after all.

At church we check our watches as our stomachs rumble and we wonder how much longer the pastor is going to keep us. We wipe noses and change diapers and wonder when in the world those parents are going to pick their kids up. We avoid the “talkers,” like the plague and when they do catch us, we smile and nod as we back toward the door with an apologetic, “Well, I’ve got to go now…”

In this world of electronic distractions and technological multi-tasking we are caught up in the busyness of life. We have forgotten how to truly listen, focusing 100% of our attention on one person, looking them in the eye, and really hearing what they are saying. We have forgotten that people are more important than to-do lists, and relationships are more imperative than appointments.

Christ was never too busy for people. Although he sometimes withdrew to rest and recharge, He always charged back into the fray. For three consecutive years, Christ was surrounded by people pushing and pulling, demanding His attention and His talents. How tired He must have been! Yet He knew what was truly important: people. Let us follow Christ’s example and love as He loved. 

--C. Wilson